My husband left our house 10 days ago, 8 months after I discovered he was having an affair. He said the affair was an error of judgement and shouldn’t have done it, but I am not sure if he has ended it. He said he was leaving because he needs to be alone as all his life he has had responsibility and duty, to his mother and sister who live in Turkey and to me and our 16 year old daughter. He is now 41 so when is he going to do what HE wants? He now lives in a flat which he purchased. He has phoned us everyday since he left and came to the house both sundays since. He takes me out for a coffee like he has done every sunday for the last 8 months and gives the impression he is coming back. My daughter finds this arrangement destressing as she doesn’t want to see him. Should I follow him to find out about other woman? This would help me to break free, daughter says NO, I should just end this once and for all, friends say he comes because of his half of the house, I am so confused.
Your daughter sounds like a wise girl, follow her advice, just let him go.
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Get an attorney because this man is using you and doesn’t want to share his life or his money with you and his daughter. I think you’re daughter is right. Leave him and don’t worry about the woman he had the affair with. OH…and if you’re married to him, half of that “flat” he just bought is your’s too. Get an attorney and make the cheating husband pay. Let him go have coffee with his girlfriend on Sunday.
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If you can afford it, I would hire a private investigator. Sounds super fishy to me.
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I would follow him, if it is going to give you piece of mind. AS for your daughter, she is wise beyond her years.
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what a difficult situation. I would say, do the best thing for you and your daughter, and take a clean break from him. As much as you want to know, don’t follow him, remember, the hardest thing to do, is usually also the right thing to do. You deserve better.
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